This isn’t going to tell me to be one of those cheesy servers that annoy me is it?

The key to being a great server is providing great service.  There is nothing inherently cheesy about that.  This book teaches you that it is imperative that you are yourself in order to build rapport with your guests.  If you didn’t start out as a cheesy server, this book won’t turn you into one.  It will just help you make more money than they do.